The Secret to Getting the Best, Most Beautiful Engagement Photos

When you think about engagement photos, you probably want something that feels like you. Something natural, romantic, beautiful, playful and also something that doesn’t look like you're trying too hard or doing awkward poses.

The good news is that you don’t have to be a model or know what to do with your hands to get photos you love. You just need a few little tricks to help bring out the best version of you two. And yes, it’s easier than you think.

So what’s the secret? It’s all about comfort, connection, and keeping it real. There are also some tips that I've found after years of being a wedding photographer. Scroll on to learn more about how to make that happen.

Find a photographer that aligns with your style

You don’t need just a photographer with a good camera. You need someone who will bring out your personality. Someone who gets your sense of humor, knows how to help you relax, and isn’t afraid to crack a dumb joke to make you laugh mid-photo. Before you book anyone, have a quick chat with them. If you feel comfortable talking with them, you'll probably feel comfortable in front of their camera too. As a photographer, I want my couple to leave their Engagement Session telling me how much fun they had and that they can't wait to see me again for the wedding day!

How to Prepare Ahead of Time

Prepare early to help your session run smoothly. Here are a few things that can make the day run smoother, stress free and help us all have a blast while getting amazing photos!

• Prep your clothes the day before and set them out to be sure that you're not forgetting anything. Steam or iron out wrinkles, double check that everything fits right, and make sure you have all your accessories that you need. Don't forget to double check if your bra shows through, or anything else you don't want showing is visible.
• If you're planning on getting your hair and makeup done, consider doing a trial run before the shoot. This will give you a chance to tweak anything you’re not happy with, and ensure you’re feeling your best when the session day arrives. If you’re doing it yourself, make sure to bring a few essentials along like your lip gloss, and powder.
• Don't forget about your nails. We will be photographing your hands, hand holding, your engagement ring, your hands around each other. Also, don't forget to clean and polish your ring to make sure that it glistens throughout the session.
• On the day of your session, try to eat light and healthy, lighter foods will keep your energy up without weighing you down. Also, don't starve yourself and eat a couple hours before the session because you will be your best self if you're not hangry during your session.
• Pack a few essentials in a large tote bag such as water bottles, a towel if you're doing a beach session, any additional footwear you may need if we're going to be doing a lot of walking during your session, and anything else you may need.
• Leave your purse and valuables either at home or in your car. You don't want to have to worry about leaving anything behind while we're moving around during your session, and you also don't want to have anything bulky in pockets (men are always guilty of this one). I can hold things for you in my bag if needed but it's not a big bag, but I will always hold onto your car keys and phones so they aren't distracting in the photos.

Location! Location!

Lastly, and most importantly, L O C A T I O N!

Pick a location that feels meaningful, brings out your personalities, or simply makes you feel happy. Whether it’s a coffee shop where you had your first date, a beautiful beach at sunset, the mountains with nature surrounding you, or somewhere that fits the same vibe as your wedding, the right setting will bring your dream engagement session to life.

Think natural light, open space, and somewhere you can move, laugh, and just be yourselves.

One thing to keep in mind, however, is not only the location but also the time of year. We're Southern California based so luckily almost every time of year is nice here, but there are certain times of the year that certain location just look better, or are less crowded. When you think of the beach summer usually comes to mind for most people, but that is actually the worst time to take photos at the beach because it is over crowded, hot, and parking can be very challenging, especially on a weekend. When you think of the mountains or a natural setting like botanical gardens, the spring and fall is typically the best time with the spring being my favorite because all the flowers are in bloom. If you have a certain look in mind for your session, ask us to help guide you to what will look the best during the time of year and the timing of the day. Another thing to keep in mind is that some locations charge a fee for photography or require reservations if it's a popular spot.

Scroll down for some of our favorite locations in Southern California: